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The assumption is that in order to fully embrace spirituality, you have to belong to a particular faith system or take yourself off to a place of worship on a regular basis. While there is no doubt that, for those who subscribe to these beliefs and practices there are definitely some spiritual benefits, spirituality can mean different things to different people.
However, like most things, we tend only to notice our connection with the spiritual side of our lives once it’s been severed. If the spiritual aspects of our lives are neglected, then we can quickly experience the symptoms of spiritual malaise. Feelings of disconnection from the world around you, apathy and a lack of purpose are common symptoms.
Your Spiritual Timetable
There are plenty of retreats and solutions available online but, in the 21st Century, they’re not always practical. While spending a week at a psychic sweat lodge might seem tempting, family, finances and work commitments can make ventures such as this a bridge too far.
The good news is that there are simple and effective ways that you can reignite that feeling of connection without having to spend vast sums of money or take time off from real life. The key is to incorporate these ideas into your daily routine, so that they become as much a part of your lifestyle as brushing your teeth in the morning or going to the gym after work.
The secret seems to be in creating habitual patterns of behavior that unite the three aspects of our existence: the mind, body and soul. Research carried out by Dr Andrew Newberg found that there was similar brain activity between meditating Buddhists, praying nuns and chanting Sikhs – all of whom were practicing rituals designed to help them achieve higher planes of thought, being or understanding.
Dr Newberg came to the same conclusion that mystics and religious leaders have been telling us for centuries: that making spiritual practices part of your day can help generate and reinforce feelings of spiritual harmony. The good news is that these practices don’t have to interfere with your personal or private schedules and they don’t have to cost you anything more than a bit of time.
Breathing and Meditation
Buddhists use meditation as a way to connect with the world on a higher, spiritual plane. According to Buddhist tradition, Siddhartha Gautama spent time meditating under a tree, after undergoing various trials and learning various lessons. The act of meditation allowed him to suppress his ego and see the world with new eyes, suddenly understanding the mysteries of life and gaining the title of Buddha.
A key part of meditation is breathing. During meditation, Buddhists are particularly mindful of the breath, counting inhalations and exhalations as a way to quieten the mind and root it in the moment. A wandering mind or distracted consciousness can undermine the point of meditating in the first place.
Medical research into meditation has found that the practice of deep breathing has a physical effect on the body, slowing the heart rate, lowering the blood pressure and inducing a feeling of relaxation. If you can spare a few minutes a day to stop whatever you’re doing, clear your mind and focus on breathing slowly and deeply, you’ll notice feelings of tranquility starting to spread.
The good thing is that the brain develops a sense-memory of this and, if you practice breathing daily and at a particular time, you’ll find that those feelings become easier to access.
Avoiding Spiritual Bankruptcy
A part of what disconnects us from the world around us is technology. While we might be able to send and receive emails or make and take phone calls, these forms of communication are spiritually bankrupt and allow us to fall into a very illusion that we are, somehow, connected to all those people where, in reality, we are simply interacting with a computer screen.
The answer is to turn everything off for an hour. Whether it’s on your lunch-break or at the end of the day, switch off your cell phone and don’t go near your computer. You may find that you are suddenly involved with rewarding conversations with your partner or, if you live alone, are inspired to go out and meet people or even just go for a relaxing walk.
Random acts of kindness
Random acts of kindness are a great way of re-energizing your spiritual batteries. Specifically, we’re talking about doing things for strangers without any expectation of reward. However, these moments do come with their own reward. It might be a smile, a word of thanks or even tears of gratitude, but if you can help someone for no other reason than for the sake of doing so, you’ll find that your feelings of connection with your community and the people around you increases dramatically.
There are many, many options open to you, such as volunteering at a local community center, working at a soup kitchen or even just picking up litter in your neighborhood. Give it a try. But remember to do it for the right reasons – not to make yourself ‘feel good’ but simply because you can. Getting in touch with Nature Zen Buddhists use gardening as a method promoting a state of inner harmony. It tends to be the simplest tasks that offer the greatest rewards. Zen Buddhists can spend hours simply ploughing a straight line in some pebbles – but taking the time to ensure that the line is as straight as they can possibly make it is the key. While these tasks may sound a little dull, once you invest yourself in them, you are fusing the three aspects of your being; the mind, body and soul.
Working in your own garden can be just as spiritually fulfilling and give you some physical rewards for your labors. Plant flowers that you know will delight you when they bloom. Plant herbs that you can use for cooking and even those that have healing properties. The very act of planning your horticultural calendar, preparing the soil and nursing those plants to maturity can help you cleanse your mind and put you in touch with the seasons and the ebb and flow of Nature. If you don’t have a garden, buy a window box or something like a Bonsai tree; the plant will become much more than just a plant; it will become a symbol of your quest for spiritual harmony.






